I realize the "what photo sharing site should I use" question gets asked often here, but I have a more narrow question: I am looking for a photo sharing site that will not use your content for any of its own commercial purposes including site promotion (which excludes sites such as Picasa Web and Flickr (and most other sites)) and allows you to restrict access to your content to only those users you specify (which excludes Moby Picture). Note that I want to share photos with friends and family; I am not interested in anyone else seeing these pictures.
I am fine paying a fee for this service.
Has anyone found such a site?